It seems you've known the man in your life for like eternity. You know that both of you are meant to be together. So, what's taking him so long to pop the question?
While you are confident he wants to marry you, you may never know what is going on inside his head. Maybe he is still trying to figure out the right engagement ring that will suit you. Another possibility is that he may be waiting for his vacation days to ask your father's permission. Or he is probably not yet ready for such a big commitment.
While you can control what he is thinking, you can always find ways of copping. While you want that wedding ring on her finger like today, you sure don't want to be the girl that cries about it, or show his friends how anxious you are.
This article is meant to show you ways you can cope with this painful truth.
How To Cope When He Doesn't Propose
When Talking To Your Friends, Take Care- There's going to come a time when your friends bring up the topic of engagements and marriage, and the way you react to those questions will determine how stressful the discussion is for you. While it is easy to say I don't know what is taking him so long. I feel like he'll never ask", redirect the question or act indifferent, by saying something like, "He'll propose when he's ready and the time is right". This is especially important if your friends ask while your man is present. He may feel like he's on the spot and pressured for an answer. You will allow him some air for relaxation if you react more indifferently.
Don't Bug Him- Nagging him about when he's going to propose is only going to create stress, and the more stress you put him through, the more confused or angry he is going to feel. He might decide never to propose with your consistent nagging. It is better you allow him some space to think. This will build a stress-free atmosphere you can both live on.
Don't Start Preparation For The Wedding- Have you seen a little girl that doesn't want to get a little sneak for what her wedding might look like? It is not a good idea to start trying clothes and making preparations when your man hasn't proposed yet. If not, expect questions from the vendors that you may find difficult to give answers to, like: where's your ring and when is the date for the wedding?
Live for Now- You know he loves you and is going to present you with engagement rings and ask you to spend the rest of your life with him eventually, so why stress? Live for now. If your relationship needs sparks, don't obsess about a proposal; try something new together. Take a class, go on a picnic, or learn a new skill together.
If you find yourself struggling with the fact that your man hasn't popped the question yet, don't obsess about it. Use these tips to keep your stress level down and enjoy the dating life you have now, so you can truly enjoy your engagement later on.
While you are confident he wants to marry you, you may never know what is going on inside his head. Maybe he is still trying to figure out the right engagement ring that will suit you. Another possibility is that he may be waiting for his vacation days to ask your father's permission. Or he is probably not yet ready for such a big commitment.
While you can control what he is thinking, you can always find ways of copping. While you want that wedding ring on her finger like today, you sure don't want to be the girl that cries about it, or show his friends how anxious you are.
This article is meant to show you ways you can cope with this painful truth.
How To Cope When He Doesn't Propose
When Talking To Your Friends, Take Care- There's going to come a time when your friends bring up the topic of engagements and marriage, and the way you react to those questions will determine how stressful the discussion is for you. While it is easy to say I don't know what is taking him so long. I feel like he'll never ask", redirect the question or act indifferent, by saying something like, "He'll propose when he's ready and the time is right". This is especially important if your friends ask while your man is present. He may feel like he's on the spot and pressured for an answer. You will allow him some air for relaxation if you react more indifferently.
Don't Bug Him- Nagging him about when he's going to propose is only going to create stress, and the more stress you put him through, the more confused or angry he is going to feel. He might decide never to propose with your consistent nagging. It is better you allow him some space to think. This will build a stress-free atmosphere you can both live on.
Don't Start Preparation For The Wedding- Have you seen a little girl that doesn't want to get a little sneak for what her wedding might look like? It is not a good idea to start trying clothes and making preparations when your man hasn't proposed yet. If not, expect questions from the vendors that you may find difficult to give answers to, like: where's your ring and when is the date for the wedding?
Live for Now- You know he loves you and is going to present you with engagement rings and ask you to spend the rest of your life with him eventually, so why stress? Live for now. If your relationship needs sparks, don't obsess about a proposal; try something new together. Take a class, go on a picnic, or learn a new skill together.
If you find yourself struggling with the fact that your man hasn't popped the question yet, don't obsess about it. Use these tips to keep your stress level down and enjoy the dating life you have now, so you can truly enjoy your engagement later on.
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