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Children and Parent Relation

By Susy Walton


The most important and precious gift that can be given to your child is love. No matter what they do always, love them. A hug is a perfect gesture. No matter how old they get, a hug is so comforting. Parents tend to lose their temper when children get naughty. Therefore, everything your child does something naughty like spill something on your brand new furniture or throws something around, take a deep breath and count to ten. Training you to count might not save tears, but will save pain. Sometimes it is hard not to yell. Most mothers yell at some point or the other, but it is necessary to control our emotions.

Your children will learn to respect you only if you respect them. Be happy about the little things they do for you, and always appreciate them and then they will do them more often. Show your children how much you are willing to do for the family. They need to know that their mother is a responsible person and cares for their needs. This will teach them to do the same for their families in the future. Building a loving home for a child is the ultimate responsibility.

Have goals for your children, your family and yourself. Involve your family in your goals, teach them to make goals of their own and challenge them to achieve them. For example, if they want a new toy and it's not close to Christmas or a birthday, have them do a few extra chores around the house they don't normally do to earn the toy.

It's important to teach your children about your family history and its traditions. Some families have daily traditions and some have holiday traditions. You could cook an old traditional recipe or sing old traditional songs etc. A family gets close only by keeping family traditions alive.

Be kind to your child. They are born innocent and try to keep them that way as long as possible. It's important that we answer to all the questions asked by your children. Keep talking to them and learn what they want out of life. All children would prefer to hear more about life from people they love and trust than from complete strangers or friends. By talking to them, your children will love and respect you more. A mom is the best person to influence their children to be the best they can be. Remember to treat your children with dignity, love and respect and they will treat you with the same.




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